Why We All Need to Get Better at Saying No
If you’re anything like me, saying “no” has never been easy. Whether it’s to a friend asking for a favor, a colleague offering extra work, or an invitation to an event I’m not really interested in, I always found myself saying “yes” more often than I should. For the longest time, I thought it was just being kind or helpful, but after a while, it became clear that I was stretching myself too thin, putting my own needs aside to avoid disappointing others. The turning point for me was when I started to feel burned out—juggling too many responsibilities and not enough time for myself. It wasn’t just physical exhaustion; it was mental and emotional, too. I realized that constantly saying yes wasn’t helping anyone in the long run, especially me. The more I took on, the less energy I had to give to the things that truly mattered to me. It was time to start saying “no” more often, and let me tell you, it was harder than I expected. The first few times I said no, I felt guilty. I worried that I...